SCOTT PARKER’S eyes glimmer with the fond memories of early morning truck rides with his father.
Sometimes, they would traverse the Kent coastline as Parker accompanied his dad, Michael, during his shifts as a Heinz delivery driver — often followed by delightful ice cream treats and jaunts to amusement arcades.
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Now leading Burnley, Parker recalls, “As a young boy, I always begged my dad to let me ride in the truck.”
“He’d pull me out of school twice a week — perhaps not the best decision — but we’d rise at 3am to hit the road.”
“Thursdays were particularly special, as he’d take me along coastal routes — Ramsgate, Margate — and we’d enjoy some time at the amusement parks afterward.”
“For a young child, that was simply incredible. Those moments created lasting memories.”
These treasured experiences also fueled the drive that propels him in his current managerial role, following a tough stretch characterized by three sackings — at Fulham, Bournemouth, and Club Brugge.
Having faced that series of challenges in just 19 turbulent months, many might assume management wasn’t meant for him — yet he successfully led both the Cottagers and the Cherries into the Premier League before each club ended his tenure.
His stint in Belgium was brief, lasting only 69 days and encompassing just 12 matches.
He could have easily joined the legion of frustrated voices decrying injustice.
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Nonetheless, his only public complaint arose after a disheartening 9-0 defeat to Liverpool shortly after Bournemouth’s return to the Premier League; he noted that his team was “underprepared” for the top division.
A mere four days later, in August 2022, he was dismissed following losses of 3-0 to Arsenal and 4-0 to Manchester City.
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When asked why he hadn’t expressed his feelings more regarding the sackings that likely impacted him, he candidly shared, “Well, in the past four months, no one ever asked me.”
Parker, 44, appears to be someone who would prefer to leap off Margate’s Harbour Arm than disclose his true emotions.
However, for a brief moment, he revealed his vulnerability: “Standing on the touchline that day at Anfield felt profoundly isolating.”
“I felt a deep disappointment about how it all concluded, and out of the three, Bournemouth still stings the most. But life goes on.”
“The obstacles and challenges we face as managers are simply part of the journey.”
“Some have knocked me down, but you get back up, dust yourself off, and keep moving ahead. There were definitely moments when it was incredibly tough — that’s for sure.
“That’s why I took a year off after Brugge; by then, I had faced so many setbacks and needed time to heal, to escape the turmoil.”
“I had to reevaluate and realized long ago that while feeling sorry for oneself and dwelling in negativity is acceptable, I wasn’t going to do that.”
“Not with my upbringing; not with my background — the Lettsom Estate in Camberwell, inner London.”
“My dad was a lorry driver, and my mum was a special needs teacher; that was our life.”
“It’s not a sob story, but my career represents everything for my parents given our circumstances. Did I ever think of myself as exceptionally talented? Not even close.”
“I never truly compared my past to my present situation. But I’m acutely aware of how radically different my life could have been.”
“The fond memories of trips to Margate are wonderful — yet I also recognize that my father’s strong work ethic has significantly influenced who I am.”
“That’s what I carry with me today. I have consistently embodied working-class values — striving hard at every turn. It’s a fundamental part of my identity.”
“I connect with people at whichever club I’m part of. They’re working-class individuals, just like those here at Burnley, because I share that identity.”
“Being one of them inspires me to do everything I can to uplift this club.”
He is also making notable progress, as the Clarets head to Stoke today in third place.
And the former West Ham and England midfielder emphasized, “Those journeys with my dad are my most treasured memories, not only for the extraordinary experiences but also for the minute details of those moments and places.”
“The core principles instilled in me remain strong. While there have been challenges and triumphs, it’s truly been a roller coaster.”
“But sitting alongside my father in that truck played a crucial role in shaping who I am today, and I take immense pride in that.”
